"Your Actions May be Speaking a Different Lingo"

I have met some great men along the way and each has shown me some good traits and some bad traits. It is true to say that no one person will be perfect because we each have our flaws.

The bother for me usually comes when a guy breaks my attention and leads me to believe he is something he is not. Don't we all just hate when a person enters your life to say they want to be part of it, only to dissapoint you by their actions.

Many people do not know that the things you do daily matter more than the thing's you say. As the old saying goes, "Actions speak louder than words". You would be a fool to accept every word a person says when their actions are showing you just the opposite.

If she says that she is interested in you guys but she is posting all types of provocative images online or sleeping with multiple men then clearly you might want to evaluate her interest levels in you.

Ladies if he says I really like you and I want more with you but he is on social media promoting other women and lusting over them then back all the way up because he is confused and will only waste your time.

Pay attention to a person and their actions because those actions can make or ruin the best thing ever. Remember ladies and gents that if he/she is making effort to text or call you often but you go days not returning the same effort or when you do respond its what I like to call "one word" responses then you might be messing up and not knowing that your actions are showing that you do not care about that person as much as they care about you.

So guys if she has fallen silent...then maybe its because she feels you dont care as much as you say you do.

Ladies if he has slowed down on calling you then he is either occupied with someone else and its probably because he thinks you do not care for him as much.

Remember to watch the actions...words mean nothing if I'm stabbing you in the heart while saying I love you!