The older you get, the wiser you should become and it's time to stop doing things as you would have done as a child. Stop thinking that your precious body needs to be offered as a sacrifice in exchange to get a man to love you. The only exchange you get is a piece of stiff meat from him and he may hang around until he gets tired of you being easy then he will go around and find a woman who is not to easy.
I agree so much with what TonyaTKO is expressing in this video greatly! You ladies got to take better care of your bodies and save all that extra performing for your husband. A man who really loves you & is interested in you will be more interested in getting to know you rather than getting to know your body & how well you can satisfy him in the bedroom.
Give these men something to desire and work for.
Men love a challenge and I'm not saying take him on a marathon around the world...but hold off on the sex! Sex and Love come off different for some men and just because your home girl "NU-NU" told you that is how she got a wedding ring does not mean those same tricks will work for you because every man is different. Then the ones like your home-girl Nu-Nu end up divorced after a year because they married for the wrong reasons and guess what...he found someone really worth being with and she does it better mentally for him & physically.
I know you are so ready to have someone special in your life but hold off & wait on God to send your husband your way, so that when your husband comes you way, he will have something fresh that has not been tossed around & bent all out of shape. You will have a fresh performance for him and you wont be all bent out of shape with a bad back from getting into all those positions over the years for these men who never wanted to be with you.
Watch this video & take notes! Make a change to the way you do things ladies so that you will have something to present to your husband! My pops always said..."Ain't no Honey moon is he already has gotten the honey out the moon".
Get it together ladies...set some standards for yourself...you are so much more than your body!