Friday, December 30, 2016

Starr's Facebook Friend's Award Show!

I love all of my friend's on Facebook. Each individual has a way of capturing my attention daily either to make me laugh or simply to amaze me. So after observing a post from a fellow classmate on my page. I gained the idea of nominating some of my friends on Facebook with Awards based off of their daily stats!
This was simply just an excellent way to have fun and highlight & share some of the amazing people on my page with the world!.

                                                So let's get this Award Show popping!

       Here Are The Facebook Award Winning Nominee's Below!

Most Petty Female Of The Year Award:

 Calisha Marie: She is always keeping me and others laughing with her posts that display nothing but the honest blunt truth daily. 

Most Petty Male Of The Year Award:

John Woo: Always posting pictures that leave you shaking your head and laughing.

FB Comedian Of The Year Award:

Craig Lott: Always posting some stats that sometimes take you for a surprise. You'll either find yourself laughing or just staring at the post. 

OMG Award of The Year:

Ticsco Campbell: You just never know what he will post next! Sometimes you are left saying OMG did he really say that?! He's about the most realest & coolest person on my page & stays amped up for events!

Hustle Artist Of The Year Award:

Bianca Carke: Definitely always on her grind and making moves with her music. Anything you want in life requires hard work & she does just that.

Put On For My City Award: 

Tim Hollis:  This man is always busy along with others to make sure that his peers in the City Of Mobile are tuned in constantly to what is going on around them in the city.

Graphic Designer Of The Year Award:

Harold Rico Knight: Produces some amazing Graphic videos of his work daily and is definitely your go to guy for Graphic Designs. 

Hair Diva of the Year Award:

 Kelly Johnson: Not a day goes by that she is not showcasing some flyy hair designs! She's very good at what she does & is known to switch it up often when it comes to popping hair colors & trendy styles!

Sarcasm Of The Year Award:

Xavier S. West: Got to love him because even though some of his posts sound sarcastic, he really mixes them with some truth.

Earth, Wind & Fire  Award:

Essex J. : He gets this award because his stats & daily videos show that he is a lover of the mind, body & soul. He's an Empath & is all about encouraging women & men to just dig deeper for what they want.

She Get Tired Of The Drama Award:

Mo'nique Parker: Got to love her! I'm often catching a post here & there on some drama going on but she manages to hold things together no matter what for her boys!

He Get Tired Of The Drama Award:

Joe Drake: Very cool person, always posting some straight up & honest stats. Drama comes at him but he dodges it very well.

So Fresh & Clean Award:

Kevin McCants: This was a tough category because I have a lot of friends who dress nice. However he definitely delivers that Classic man image. #MagazineWorthyPic

Father Of The Year Award:

Daniel Haywood: This guy stays grinding and seems to be at every event in the city. No matter where he's vacationing and hanging out at, I've noticed this guy makes time for his kids no matter what. That's worthy of acknowledging since not to many guys make time.

Mother Of The Year Award:

Vecie Adams: Always keeping us laughing at her beautiful baby and family. No matter what she is always there for her daughters & husband!

Most Hilarious Lawyer Of The Year:

F. Demetrius Stokes: Hits us with some book knowledge daily & manages to hit us with some street knowledge as well. One of the most down to earth lawyers on my page.

Most Selfies Award:

Rich Kidd: Always showering us with pictures of his latest family edition, his beautiful baby & giving us a photo shoot daily!

Sketch Artist Of The Year:

Tiffany McDaniel: Very humble spirited individual who is a dreamer like myself. Not many probably take notice to the amazing art that she draws & creates outside of writing poetry.

Hood Philosopher Of The Year Award:

T. J. Gardner: The title could very well go to many but I had to allow it to rest on his shoulders because he keeps me laughing with his "hood"facts.

                                                  Always Promoting Award:

                                                            Parrish Reid

Cloud Thinker of the Year Award:

Nard Kidd: Great Music Producer but at times...he's somewhere on the clouds and may drop something hilarious every now & then. Funny thing is you may have already thought the same thing he's posting.

Bob Marley Of The Year Award:

Ike Morgan: Excellent writer & of course takes time to show off his long dreads daily! 

No Mercy Award Of The Year:

Calvin Howard: I love him for his humor & his facts. He has a unique way of mixing the truth into his jokes. He posts the truth and it will either step on your toes or just leave you laughing. He reminds me a lot of Chris Rock who serves you a fact joke with a smile on his face.
Kind of like how he did at the Oscars that year!

Married Couple Of The Year Award:

Jeffreia & LaBarron Wright: Amazing team! They support one another and keep us hitting the like button with their matching attire for their family. You never see any drama on their page. That's a plus! They are definitely the ideal marriage couple to those who inspire to get married! Could have gave this title to a few but they always shine the brightest on my page!


                                                       Always Going Live Award:
 Pvpi Sõ Eñvý: I Love my sis & she loves to go live for her friends daily. 

Knowledge Is Power Award:

I had to choose two for this category because both of these guys drop knowledge daily on my page!

& Rodney Toomer 

Thanks To Everyone who Took the Time to Check Out The Award List. You may just end up on it next year because I'm always watching to see who stands out on my page! 

There were some categories that I left off because there were too many people who fit the list so Congrats To all the Winners LOL! I love all of you and hopefully you laughed while reading and nobody got in their feelings because it was all fun!

Happy New Years To All My Facebook Friends & All My Blog Readers! I love each of you! Looking forward to all the beautiful things that 2017 will bring our way!


Tanisha "STARR" Davis of Course!

Tuesday, December 20, 2016

I Refuse To Love Your Unchanging Heart!

Too often you are taught to stay when the pain is becoming unbearable!

How many people deal with the confusion of trying to stay with a person who is refusing to change inwardly?

Daily we are asked to remain beside individuals out of love because we are told to accept that people do have flaws. Yet at some point those unchanging flaws can destroy a nation if the person is unwilling to fix the matter.

It's so very hard to love someone that doesn't want to change. I mean you may try with all you have to hang in there and help them see the benefits of changing but if they refuse constantly then its rough streets ahead.

No one deserves to be constantly hurt. 

That's not a sign of love and nobody should make the mistake of saying you don't love them if you refuse to deal with their mess.

There's only so much a person can take when you refuse to change. It's that issue of loving you but refusing to love the part of you that doesn't want to change.

Too many miss out on love from a loyal individual because they are selfish and want you to just accept them as they are.

Where are the rules that state that I have to love you in your mess? Where are the rules that say while you continue to abuse my love, that I should stay beside you?

That's an unfair situation on love and nobody should have to deal with that.

I truly feel that if you find someone who knows what you are dealing with and still wants to remain beside you to work through it....then you should definitely work hard to change whatever behavior it is that is causing pain in your relationship.

The other side of dealing with someone who refuses to change is that it drives you crazy.

Lets add that they will happily say you are crazy because you are getting fed up with their behavior.

Nothing sucks like giving all of your energy towards helping them better themselves inside & out and they kick you in the face! In other words they have no love or remorse for anything that you have done for them. They purposely & intentionally hurt you because they know that you just might never go anywhere.

Ever met someone like that?

A person that lies constantly about changing but then retreats back to that behavior while demanding you respect their ugliness.

Every person on this earth has a breaking point and that is a major deal breaker in a  lot of relationships & marriages.

Nobody has to put up with that. Nobody has to love those unchanging flaws within you.

When you love someone, you change those ugly sides of you. Simply because you want the other person to be happy, and most importantly you desire to be completely happy within.

Don't allow anyone to make you feel like you have to put up with their behavior year after year for the sake of love. 

Let it go and set them free. People who refuse to change for you are not for you. You deserve someone who will willingly change things that can harm your heart and the relationship.

Tuesday, November 22, 2016


Kanye West

Kanye West appears to be going through a lot of issues lately. Some state that its a lot deeper than just his problems with Beyonce & Jay Z. 
Around this time in November of 2007 , he lost his mother Donda West and that lost could be what is triggering his emotions right now during the holiday season.

Some feel its just a series of built up emotions for the artist and maybe it is time for him to pause what he is doing and receive the help he needs. Kanye West is an amazing father so we know that this help is needed in order for him to maintain that positive image for his daughter and not continue with outbursts.

While Kanye West, 38, has achieved incredible success in love and life, the devastating loss of his mother, Donda West, still weighs heavily on Yeezy’s heart. Donda’s passing may have affected him more than anyone thought, because the “All Day” rapper confessed he thinks he’s responsible for her death!

Kanye revealed this personal detail while speaking with Q magazine for their August issue, reports the Daily Mail. Donda passed away due to heart disease following a surgical procedure in 2007. But, Kanye said the fault for her death rests solely on his own shoulders!

“If I had never moved to LA, she’d be alive,” Kayne said. When asked to explain further as to what he meant by that, Yeezy said “I don’t want to go far into it because it would bring me to tears.”
Recently on yesterday the artist was taken to the hospital in handcuffs for a psychiatric evaluation.

Via TMZ:

Kanye West has been taken to UCLA Medical Center for psychiatric evaluation.
According to law enforcement sources ... cops responded to a call for a welfare check on Kanye around 1:20 PM PT. He was at his trainer, Harley Pasternak's home at the time and was "acting erratically."

We're told police called L.A. Fire, and by the time paramedics arrived Kanye was calmer ... but still resistant to going to the hospital. We're told everyone -- his management and law enforcement -- convinced him it was best he go. Law enforcement sources tell us Kanye was handcuffed to a gurney during transport to the hospital ... as standard protocol.
We got Pasternak outside his house late Monday evening. If he knows how Kanye's doing, he's not saying much.
Sources connected to Kanye tell us he was getting checked out by one of his doctors for severe sleep deprivation while he was at Pasternak's place ... and someone decided to call police.
The hospitalization comes on the heels of Kanye abruptly cancelling the remainder of his Saint Pablo Tour, and launching into a verbal attack on Jay Z and Beyonce.

As we told you, Kim Kardashian flew to NYC early Monday for her first public event since the Paris robbery ... but she's now officially bailed. It's a good bet she's wheels up for L.A.

Story developing ...

Tuesday, November 8, 2016

'Angry Black Woman': [Poetry] By: Poet Tanisha "Starr" Davis

They say you a mad black woman! They say we always mad about something!

Every time we cry out for being hurt, then we simply mad about something.

There aint no remorse when we simply express how we feel...nah we only good for expressing ourselves as objects of strong sex appeal.
We only fit to be looked upon while keeping our mouths closed.
Keeping blocks on our mind but keeping our legs open so he can say "Man she fine!" now drop them clothes.

Yea we a bunch of angry black women every time we open our mouth to express how we feel about a brother who aint keeping it real.

They say we to blame for the mess that we go through. They say heck we the reason he treat us like he do. Yea we are the ones to blame for every got freaking thang and if we get to speaking out on it, then suddenly "Angry Black Woman" becomes our name.

Man enough of being silent every time we say how we feel. Call me emotional, say Im sensitive, I dont give two cares about how you feel! I'm just being real.

We are objects paraded about in a society that has no respect for us. A society that promotes side chicks and friendly benefits over a committed marriage. A society that destroyed the pumpkin and crashed the carriage...a freaking fairytale of a hope that we wish for along with a lovely shiny carat.

Yea we always wrong for following our heart and giving up more of our time than we really should. All cause he said be quiet, quit tripping, baby its all good.

Back and forth we trying to deal with the mess because others tell us its worth fighting for. Got our hearts now becoming a revolving door!
Soon it all builds up and she spills the cup, liquids of confessional pain flowing all over from the membrane and the first thang he say is she crazy...she insane.

He start yelling how she misunderstood what he said cause baby girl we were simply just friends. He got her assuming that all his love actions were a fantasy made up of her own. Now she standing crying and on the verge of fighting to not be alone.

Angry Black Woman...yep that's what you get called every time you speak your mind about the pain you been through.

Yet dont we have a right to be angry sometimes when the heart has been tampered with then treated like a cold case crime?!

#AngryBlackWoman #Poetry
By: Starr T Davis aka Tanisha D. Davis

When It Hurts So Bad...Lauryn Hill

Monday, October 24, 2016

Comedian/Actor Brandon Scanavich Set to Make his Stand Up Debut at The World Renowned JSpot Comedy Club!

Brandon Scanavich is soon to become a household name!

He has made appearances on tour with well known comedians in the game such as Michael Blackson, and just recently teamed up with Actor/Comedian Brandon T. Jackson on the #FreshNFunnyTour. He has been a busy man making his way from state to state delivering nothing but pure comedy in the midst of all the madness highlighted daily in the media. Scanavich also took the spotlight back in June by appearing on one of the biggest social media platforms for comics,!

Now he is taking his career to the next level with his Stand-Up Debut at the World Famous, "JSpot Comedy Club", which is owned by the legendary Comedian/Actor J. Anthony Brown!

Scanavich will also be teaming up next month, November 12 in Memphis TN, for an Actor's workshop with Actor Marc John Jeffries who is known for his roles in movies such as 'Losing Isaiah', & "Get Rich or Die Trying.  If you are looking to enhance your acting skills and gain some knowledge on the industry then this is definetly a workshop that you should make plans to be in attendance to.

Keep Up with Comedian Brandon Scanavich on Social Media and make plans to be in attendance at the JSpot Comedy Club!

   Brandon Scanavich

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Thursday, October 20, 2016

Chief Of Mobile AL Police Department Catching Heat From Wife's Racist Comment

Has the US not experienced enough this year with racism in the Black Community?

Matter of fact, has the Black Community not experienced enough over the past 50 years with racism?

The City Of Mobile is known for being a major tourist attraction because of its nearby beaches, fresh seafood and for being the original home of Mardi Gras.

Yet the last thing the city wants to be known for is having their Chief carrying out matters of anything related to law enforcement with a wife who feels that "all blacks are violent".
Below is an image containing the comment on Facebook made by Chief Barber's wife, 'Faith Barber' after an individual stated, "All Blacks Are Not Violent" upon which she replied "Since when?".

This just goes to show you how "some" white people low key feel about blacks regardless of how educated or financially grounded you are. This is merely a reflection of the conversations their household speaks on behind closed doors or among their friends. These are the very ones who are your doctors, nurses, lawyers and more. To say all blacks are violent is a very ignorant and uneducated statement.

 We personally don't feel he should continue on as Chief of the Mobile Police Department unless the City of Mobile is happy with having a Chief with a public identity for being racist towards blacks residing over their city's law enforcement department. This can only lead us to believe that many cases are being possibly handled with a lack of concern because they feel all blacks are violent anyway. Mind you a while back he even stated that had Michael Moore, (who was a young black teen killed by a white officer of the Mobile Police Department) not been riding around in a stolen car, he would have not been killed. That along was another uneducated response to say that any person deemed as a possible criminal deserves to be killed.
Let us add that there is currently no updates on that murder case by that officer and no hearing of a trial scheduled any time soon.

According to Fox 10 News, the Chief made an open apology for his wife's comments on the Facebook site and comments previously made by himself. The community however feels that his apology is not even close to being enough and many feel that he should resign from his position.

We do not feel that statements such as this should be overlooked by a minor apology. Her uneducated actions should lead to some form of discipline. It would be difficult to assume that the citizens of the city as well as those "Black Officers" who serve in the blue under him are content with this behavior.
These same "Black Officers" who she carelessly labeled that "all blacks are violent" are the very ones who serve and protect you and your family. So to say they all are violent or "since when" did they not exist as violent is truly idiotic.

If I were in LE (Law Enforcement), I would probably feel a bit indifferent serving under these accusations.

How do you feel about this situation?
Do you feel Chief Barber should resign following this statement by his wife or past statements he has made? Do you feel the City of Mobile deserves another Chief over their Police Department?

                                                           Comment your thoughts below.

Saturday, October 8, 2016

Actor/Comedian Brandon T. Jackson Has An OBSESSED STALKER!

Everyone knows the funny man, Brandon T. Jackson for his movie roles and his latest Fresh & Funny Tour that has been quite successful with sell out shows all year. However we received a tip this morning that the actor has been dealing with a crazed fan on Instagram since August of this year, who has been causing problems between him and his current girlfriend, Denise Xavier, claiming that she is married & pregnant by the actor!

The female, has a full page on Instagram claiming that she and the actor are married and expecting a baby!


We all know that celebrities deal with crazy fans everyday but we think she has taken things to the next level, and we call that obsession!

Recently I had the pleasure of attending one of Brandon T. Jackson's shows in Atlanta, Georgia for the Fresh & Funny Tour, and I was shocked to discover that this female had even stolen one of my pictures and posted it on her page as if she were me! Her page also consists of possibly other stolen images from the web of pictures of twin babies that she claims are also the actor's children by her!

I knew I was popular with my writing but to see her use one of my pictures was a huge shock! Who else is she imitating just to cause problems for the actor. Brandon T. Jackson is a very spiritual and down to earth man and sadly this is an issue that we hope he can resolve.

What in the world is wrong with people when it comes to these celebrities?
It appears just from strolling down her page that she has created her own little world evolved around her and the actor. We can only hope that the actor is able to get matters under control before he stars in a real life sequel movie of Obsession!

This is crazy!

Saturday, October 1, 2016

Next Level Living: The Growth Process

Life is all about growing and advancing to the next stage of your life.

We are growing daily from the time we enter this world until the latter parts of our life.

As we grow, things within us began to change and we are able to do things differently than we were able to do before.

A baby starts out scooting across the floor, then crawling, then balancing, then finally walking.

Our life should be a symbolization of growth, and nothing should ever be the same with us as it was in the previous year. We should never find ourselves complacent and in a repetitive cycle that is getting us nowhere.

At the end of every year, we began to set goals for how we will improve the next year, we call them our New Years Resolutions. These goals are set to push us to the next level of our life. These goals are reminders of where we want to see ourselves in the year to come. These goals are our visions to becoming better inside and out.

You should always evaluate your life and observe if you are growing mentally as well as spiritually. Nothing about you should remain the same if it is not beneficial to your growth.

I observe many who are in the same place of their life year after year after year. They have sadly grown content with being in a negative cycle that has become a hindrance to their growth.

As we age, I would like to believe that we should also age mentally.

We shouldn't be doing the same things we did as a teenager when we are in the stages of an adult. We shouldn't hold the same conversations or distribute the same behaviors as we did as a child.

When others see us, they should not be able to say, "You haven't changed at all", instead they should be able to say, "There is something different about you!".

Ever met a person and every time you see them, they are up to the same old habits, living in the same situation, doing the same stuff that has not profited them each year?

Its honestly quite depressing to look at and you wish there was a way to show them that there was so much more to life than the current situation they choose to remain in.

At the age of 13 I made a decision to be better than my surroundings. Year after year I would push to be better than the year before. As I got older, I was experimenting with new work fields, going to trade school and learning different skills, or just moving around and living in different cities to expand my knowledge on life.

I tend to laugh when my peers state that I'm always living somewhere different or on the go.

This is because my mindset is never the same and I am never in the same place for too long. I do not grow content in areas that are holding me back and not allowing me to go to the next level of my life spiritually or physically.

You have to seek advancement and desire to be better!

How have you changed this year? What is new about you this year? Are you still doing the same things you were last year and the year before?

You must look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself simple questions like this. These questions allow you to see if you are growing in the right direction. You can age but you can also age in the wrong direction. A tree planted on bad soil or in a bad location can grow crooked or leaning to the side. Your desire is to grow upright without limitations to your growth.

If you discover that nothing about you has changed or matured then you need to take the steps now to fix those things in your life so that you may receive all that life has to offer you behind the next door of your life.

Let me add that you should also be wise about the company you keep when seeking to advance to the next level.

As you grow, avoid hanging around those who are not trying to improve in their life as you are. We all tend to get caught up in hanging around childhood friends but if those friends are not pushing you to become a better you then they are not your friends. You should never involve yourself with those who desire to see you on the same level every year and encourage foolish behavior and thinking.

Are you happy where you are today?

If not then now is the time to make changes. You don't have to wait until the new year to make changes in your life. Scripture tells us to take no thought for tomorrow so therefore tomorrow is not a guaranteed fact but today is because you are alive and living.

Now is the time for growth and change.

Take that step in the right direction and break the cycle. No more living in a circle and being known to others as always being the same person every year, in the same situation.

Its time to grow!