Living Single & Waiting

So you are single and the wait for that right one is starting to take its toll on you and you are wondering will you ever find the right one.

Yes the single life at times can become frustrating because you are tired of going in circles and opening up to new people only to find yourself in a mess later. You think to yourself about the precious time you keep wasting with the wrong people.

Well here is a tip for you as you push through this season of waiting in your life.

Take this time to prepare yourself for your future mate. Go back to school, work on your career, build your finances, or even work on your physique by hitting the gym. Make the best of this waiting period. See it as a time to prepare yourself for that mate to come.

Stop Searching and just focus on you.

At times we are so wrapped around the fact that we feel lonely and we are watching others appearing to be so happy to the point that you are honestly wasting more time looking at others rather than getting yourself together.

Singles tend to become depressed and gain weight and become bitter with complaints of how they will never find the one. Stop all of that negative talking!

Get out and discover the best parts of you. Take advantage of this quiet season to discover what you really like so that when your mate comes, you will be able to identify that he/she is exactly what you need in your life.

Prepare yourself!

Have you ever seen a groom or bride just hop out the bed and go down the aisle?

Not in this lifetime!
They prepare and go through all types of rehearsals and dieting and preparation mentally and physicallly for this life long transition.
So therefore use this moment to prepare. There is a reason behind it all and you should quit downing yourself.  None of those past relationships were meant to work out because God has someone especially for your heart and type of personality.

Thank God that they left, or did something foul to be dismissed from your life. Now reshape your mind and pull yourself together and prepare for the best love ever to come.

Get those abs together, tone those legs and get that flawless skin going!

When you are found....Dear Ruth
When you see her...Dear Boaz

You will be ready mentally & physically so start today preparing for that walk down the aisle!