Who really cares about the truth when people are more recieving of lies? You can reveal the truth and people will still go on to believe what they choose to believe simply because the truth hurts too much. Take a female in a relationship for instance where she has heard multiple rumors that the guy is cheating and she will go and say something like, "Well I havent seen it with my own eyes, so I wont believe it". What makes you think that a professional cheater will let you catch them cheating?! I've always paid attention to when multiple people...not just one but multiple people including family are telling you that the person you so wrapped up in is really unfaithful and out to use you. Why is it that we ignore all the advice and red flags in our faces?
Its simple.
People are so insecure and afraid of letting go. They would rather have a piece of nothing than to have nothing at all. They know the truth, their gut has given them that bad feeling that all the rumors are true but they ignore it because they have grown comfortable with the lies.
The sad part is we all want to warn our loved ones and friends about harmful activity because it is so dissapointing. Yet when you tell them the truth, they turn their backs on you. They assume you have some secret motive and just don't want to see them happy. Love is blind. Its blind to the truth and you cant tell a person who is in love the truth because they are blind to what everybody else sees and knows.
They will not be satisfied until they continue on and see it in full effect with their own eyes. My grandma always said, "A hard head makes a soft behind".
Some have to learn the hard way and there is nothing you can do to save them from the pain. Yet if you have done your part, then just step away for a while.
The truth no matter how it is attempted to be hidden and covered will soon surface.
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