If It's Causing You Pain then Let It Go!

You are the caring type and you just want to keep everyone happy even if at times you find yourself becoming malnourished in the process. Somebody at some point in your life said treat others the way that you want to be treated right? So you went through life being good to others despite their actions towards you because you just were a "good person" on the inside. I mean you wanted to be remembered as the person who never hurt a soul and you felt this is the best way to be remembered in life.

Well honey I'm here to tell you that it's time to stop giving a flying fluke about how other people feel if its causing pain for you!

Just stop it right now! Throw away all the excuses and stop trying to maintain an image of good towards a toxic person. You do not owe anybody your goodness if they continue to serve you every bit of garbage they have to offer. Even the bible says do not give that which is good to the dogs (Matt:7: 6) & honey you have been serving up fruit to pigs thinking it will make them change who they are towards you.

It is time now, at this very moment to break those ties with them and set them free to do as they please with someone else.

All the good deeds in the world won't change a pig into a prince or princess. You have to consider your own well being mentally and spiritually and you will not get ahead to receiving the good until you rid yourself of the bad.

You can't keep pouring spoiled milk in with good milk and thinking at some point the good milk will not become polluted.

There are many of you who are single and praying without cease for God to send something good your way but out of the fear of being lonely you manage to hold on to a bunch of toxic people. If you want a good gift, honey you got to take out the trash!

Take a deep look at the people in your life and write down how they are of good to your health. If all you see are red flag after red flag then let them go. We tend to ignore a lot of bad behavior because again we want to give chance after chance and most of all pretend that we don't see the crap they are constantly throwing in our face. There are some people you may be involved with who have shown you in more ways than one that they do not care how you feel about them. They disrespect you to your face and bring shame to you in public places & on social networks.

These are the type that you must let go of if you wish to receive the blessings that God has laid up in store for you.

Sometimes we take the idea of being good to others overboard. It is not good to poison your soul by continuing to involve yourself with toxic people. That's like saying that God wishes for you to drink poison everyday because he wants you to be good to the poison. Doesn't make a bit of sense right?!

So don't wait until the new year, begin now deleting these people from your life. It is not your job to try to change them, that is the job of the most high and only if they desire the change. You have to accept the fact that some people like being the way they are. They have grown comfortable with it and all the sweet acts in the world won't make them appreciate you.

So stand up for yourself and let them go, I can assure you that you are not missing out & losing anything!
There is someone out there who will gladly accept your acts of kindness all the while returning the same greatness to you.

Stop playing around in the dumpster & clean yourself up! You deserve better than what you have been allowing yourself to receive!


Holding on to a toxic person is just blocking you from your blessing! It's time to walk away and let them be miserable towards someone else. Your heart is not a playing field.