He Is Not Being Thirsty!

"Girl he acting so Thirsty!"

This term has been used so much that it actually needs to retire along with a few other slangs. It is sad these days that a lot of females do not know the difference between a guy who is interested in them and one who is being "thirsty" or desperate so to say.

Some say that a man is considered being thirsty when he starts going out of his way to attract a woman to him. I think the fact that men are being called "thirsty" for revealing their true feelings for a woman and doing nice things for her is not a sign of "thirst" but a sign of interest in her. It's these types of women who are making dating so difficult in 2016 and the years before because of their lack of knowledge on what it feels like to have a man being interested in them for more than sex.
With women using this term, it began a spread of something that has plagued a lot of men who now are hesitant about showing how they truly feel for the sake of their manhood and ego.


No longer is dating about building a serious and realistic connection with someone anymore, because the second you actually show TRUE emotion you are immediately labeled "thirsty". Ladies, if that is what constitutes being thirsty these days, then you honestly need to ask yourself why are you dating? Then, ask yourself if finding love is part of that equation? And if it is, ask yourself what that love truly looks like. I think it’s time we stopped using the word THIRST to describe when a man is simply trying to win a woman’s affections.

Now lets be mindful that there are some men out there who can't take a hint at all. They are the ones in your inbox desperately asking for a chance with you and despite all your no's and acts of ignoring them, they still keep in pursuit. They are commenting on every status, and following you on all social sites trying to get you to notice them. The ones who just refuse to take no for an answer so you end up having to block them. Yes, those are the desperate types. Yet if a man is dating you and being a gentlemen, like texting you sweet messages through out the day and saying "good- morning" etc., then he is not being "thirsty". He is merely doing what a true gentleman does for a woman he adores and admires. Know the difference because you could be brushing off the wrong guy.

I know a lot of females like to jump in on what is trending in the media among other unlearned females on things that they have no clue about. Knowing when a man is thinking highly of you and wanting to spend his off days and spare time with you is a plus these days and should be greatly appreciated. Let's not take for granted the acts of a good man towards us by labeling him "thirsty".