There is a reason why she seems to be chasing after the man who has the money more so than the man who has her heart at best interest. We all believe in love but for many that love does not help to pay the bills or make life easy. No matter how hard a man works there will always be that guy who drives by in the nice Ferrari that makes his Toyota look like nothing at all. The sad thing about it is not only does he notice the nice ride but so does his girlfriend.
Many women would be lying if they said they were not looking for a man who could take care of them. It's what many of them have been raised up on for centuries. Women were taught to just maintain their beauty and cooking skills so they could get a man who was rich enough to take care of them. Father's did not even give their daughter's hand in marriage without knowing exactly how that man planned on taking care of her.
Forget about coming to her parents door with love in your heart and no money because her parents would keep the door locked and turn off the porch light. The average female despite how much she loves one guy tends to go after the guy who shows her that he can give her a better life financially despite how much he actually cares about her. In every neighborhood or household you can possibly find a woman whose heart belongs to another guy the opposite of the one she married. To her family and friends the decision will be considered a good move but she will live on forever trying to prove to herself that she loves him more than she loves his money.
Lets take a look deeper into the matter.
So she is a working woman who is just barely getting by with her monthly bills and obligations. She really loves this guy who she has known for a while now. Every month she finds herself in a financial crisis so she calls you to help out with that shortage on the rent or maybe some gas in her car. When she calls, you began telling her about how you really wish you could help her but currently you have no money to give her. She loves you so she states how she understands despite the fact that she is still in desperate need of some help. While strolling down her call log for persons who are able to help her, she runs across that guy who is self-employed and even though he is a bit disrespectful, he is always available to help her when she needs him. The lights are about to be turned off and you my lover boy can't help her so what do you think she will do?She will call that disrespectful guy to pay her bills and eventually find herself involved with him because she needs the help and lover boy is just never able to come through when she needs him.
This is the realistic scenario for so many women every month and every day.
So even though love matters, a woman in this day and time is looking for that love to be shown in more ways than one.I do believe that a woman who sticks beside a man when he is broke until he makes it on his feet will truly be taken care of if the guy appreciates her. There are some guys who do make it but run off with another woman and forget about the one who put up with him during his broke days.
I'm not saying that its ever right for a woman to not put up with a guy that she claims to love because he is broke. I just want you to see the reasons for why this mishap occurs everyday. No woman should choose a guy just because of his finances because those are things that can easily change but it happens daily.
Your financial status does matter, however having a woman who will stick beside you while you work on bettering yourself is a huge blessing and you should definitely appreciate that. In a world where money is the only thing that seems to matter these days, a man must value a woman who is not after his pockets but is after his heart.
Money does talk a lot quicker but a man who is broke will only finish last if he chooses to.
No woman wants a man who sells her dreams but every year is still in the same boat he swam to her door in.
Get yourself together so that when you and that special woman do come together, you can enjoy life a lot easier. We all want someone to love us for just us but sadly that's not the way it is all the time. People love you as long as you have something going for yourself and if not then that love tends to turn into vapor.
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