She Said She Wants a Real Man But....

Okay Ladies & Gents, we all have gathered around and heard men and women state the things they would like from the opposite sex to feel complete & happy.

Today, I want to focus more on us, "women". We have dreamed for years about our fairytale life and how our Prince Charming will come and sweep us off our feet. We have written out long lists of what standards we expect him to meet and how we expect him to look.

There is nothing wrong with that. Everyone is entitled to their on desire.

The problem is that often we are so focus on what we expect the man to be that we forget to meet the expectations of what a woman should be. Am I here today to tell you how to be a woman? No.
Becoming a woman is all about continuous growth, it never ends no matter how old you are, you still can mentally not be on that level of maturity or classification.

Stand in front of a mirror and take a long look at yourself....notice anything wrong or anything you could change or alter? You may say, No or you may be honest and talk about chnages you could use in your complexion etc. My goal however is to get you to see you for who you are so that when that man you desire comes along, he is able to see what you see.

Dont be a hypocrit and ask for your man to have a job,must love God, have an education, lots of money, a nice car, his own place and so forth, when you dont have any of those things for yourself.
Dont think that for one second when mr. right comes along that he doesnt also have a list of some things he wants in his woman or wife to be.

Get yourself together, make sure you have all those things & great qualities that you are seeking from him also so that when you both come together, it will be an amazing combination.

Alot of women say they want real men, but arent yet real women, they go around all day gossiping and sleeping around, saying to themselves if he can do it then so can I, when really you are ruining your body and your reputation. Let me let you ladies in on a reality check....listen & read closely...
every man is a different size....so when you letting multiple men test drive you, then you are wearing your little car out and by the time it is presented to a potential buyer....he is not interested and pointing out all the worn out interior.

So again I say, Get yourself together so you can be ready for that real man you seek.
If you havent finished High School or College....complete it. Education is powerful, it means you have a little extra knowledge so that people cant go around manipulating you as easy.
Funny fact, there are some men who love a dumb woman because they know they can easily mislead her and trick her into anything...dont be offended but its the truth.

If you are not working, get up & get busy doing something....dont just sit around and do nothing all day, there are 24 hours in a day, 30-31 days in a month & 365 days in a year not counting a Leap Year. You have way too much time on your hand to not be doing anything but yet you want this hard working man.

No man wants a lazy woman to come home to or show off to his friends & family.

When you get yourself together, then God can send you someone. How can he send you someone when you are missing pieces, a puzzle with missing pieces is not a pretty picture.

Present yourself to be just as worthy as you feel he should be.