Does Facebook Expose the True Person Behind the Screen?

It seems that this is the new way to meet & hook up or maybe simply connect with people all over the world. Maybe you accepted requests from friends that went to school with you or requests from those that others have suggested to you. The thing is, How many of us know who they really are behind the screen? You can chat back & forth in Messenger or you can comment on their stats and hopefully gain an idea of who the person is. The major problem is that half of the people you think you know that are posting stats daily are not really representing the image they are giving off to the public. Let's be straight up with this, because some of the single guy stats are actually married or engaged and they hide their relationship very well, because they can choose which photos to keep private for just themselves and no one else to see or they can custom make them so that only their girlfriend or wife sees the photos, so now to her it appears that everyone sees the same thing she is seeing!

The other issue on here is that people put to much of their personal life which includes their relationship out on social media. Every move they make, its posted to a large group of people who could care less about your relationship or are patiently waiting for that status to change back to "Single". I mean people post where they are eating at, where they are shopping at and honestly it can be a bit scary because the wrong person could see the information and know exactly where to come find you if they wanted to harm you. Let's get back to the subject because that could be another topic so stay tuned. So these men & women have their inbox full of messages that are misleading people to believe they are the man or woman of their dreams. Thanks to text messaging, many can communicate now more than ever without their partner ever knowing unless they had access to their cell phone statements.

The only problem which is so very dangerous about people getting on Face book and writing lies is that you risk someone's life. If another person is not aware that you are in a relationship and you are selling dreams to them, you risk their life because your spouse could be psycho! The last thing a married man or woman wants to hear is, "I did not know he/she was in a relationship or married".
Many people have lost their lives due to the unknown information. People get on these social sites and live out their fantasy lives, they can be whoever they desire to be on Face Book to please the world. They mislead the public and sell lies for likes!
The ones giving out relationship advice are usually reckless in relationships, the ones claiming to be 100% real are some of the fakest people you will ever meet, the ones claiming to be balling are broke, the ones claiming to be living in popular states are usually living around the corner from you, the ones who claim to be looking for someone to love them are unfaithful and have been through so many females or males that it is ridiculous! The ones who claim to be Christians are some of the biggest whores....you see my point.

 

 

 

How can you tell who is Real & who is Fake? Scary Right?!!!

 

People should just be honest and truthfully just be yourself. If you are in a relationship or marriage that you are not happy in, then by all means get out of it rather than drag someone else along into your messy life. Men lie to women all day and only give out the information that they want the women to know, and the women only give out what they want the men to know. Here is the thing I have found the most humorous. Face book allows you to go back down their news feed from years and you can gain some form of idea about the person chatting with you online. Yes, people do change but for some, you can see a pattern and you discover a little about the person. That guy pretending to be an angel fallen from the sky just for you, is simply that a fallen angel, a evil spirit looking to lure in his next target. He has no idea why he is single...He is such a good hard working man...the woman just don't know how to handle a good man he says...you believe him til you go through his timeline or start observing his posts on Face Book and you find out that he says that to all the ladies. This is the same but very rare with women. Don't get it twisted though because yes there are some women who come to deceive to and they hold their own secrets  to. They claim to be single but they live with men who they are in relationships with....they don't know why they are single but its because they just broke up that day with their man because you know they had a fight but he will be back that night! They even go as far to give you their number and the men are good for this to, but they find the best times to call you or they sneak and call you from closets, their car, or while they are at work or over a friends house.

 

Now don't get me wrong because you can actually meet some honest people on Face Book who represent exactly what they say. There are single men who love God on Face Book who are praying for the right woman to cross his computer screen or pop up in his friend request, and there are actually some God fearing women who are on Face Book who are single and in hope of meeting the right man. So how do you know? Truth is that you just have to leave the work up to God! If he or she is truly the one for you then God will bring both of you together and you will know that they are the one! You will feel it, because if it sounds to good to be true then nine out ten times, it is! Don't get fooled or dragged into someone else's mess! Pay attention to what they say, what they post, put it all together. Eventually you will be able to discover the truth or unscramble the letters to ILE...they may drop in different parts of the conversation and at different points but eventually they spell...LIE!

 

 

Stay Tuned because I'm writing more on this topic soon!