"Sometimes a Cry" - Poetry4U by Tanisha D. Davis

Sometimes you just want to cry
never wipe the tear from your eye
just let the flow reveal
exactly how you feel

Sometimes you lay down your head
pretend to float away
erase the painful feelings
that you felt during the day

Sometimes you just want to cry
let your feelings show
you don't care who see's it
just let the hurt show

My tears only show an expression
of my deep felt confession
they only show I'm human
capable of an obsession

My tears just reveal the deepest part of me
my fears, my love, my deepest fantasy
the things I cant let go of
the things I need to grow pass... maybe...duh
I know its crazy and all out of whack
this love thing has you feeling like its crack

I cant get you off my mind
laying here crying all the time
laying here wrapped up in the sheets
my heart like...beat...then beat...then skip a beat

I'm going crazy they must say
sitting here in my feelings all day
but how else do I express
the very things that capture and reveal me as a mess
then again maybe its all for the best
maybe I turn around and this relief leaves me blessed
or maybe its all just a test of the faith
got to find a way to leave this deep place

Sometimes I cry
hang my head high
dark brown eyes facing the sky
clouds slowly passing me by

Wind hitting my face
running with the breeze
not afraid to fall and bruise my knees
not afraid to hurt no more
don't care how they feel
watching me like a child
running up and down this hill

Sometimes I cry
just to express the joy inside
uncontrollable love
some things pride can't even hide

Sometimes you just want to cry
never wipe the tear from your eye
just let the flow reveal
exactly how you feel

Nobody has to know
nobody has to care
Just let the tears flow
let the emotions fill the air

Cry baby, Cry baby
that's all they would say
toughen up, toughen up
get out your feelings...like okay

You sober up
you straighten up
play that tough role for the crowd
but inside your head...it's all so loud, so loud

Your focus is off
you cant think straight
one simple song
reminds you of the pain you hate

People holding hands
people smiling as if its aimed at you
reminding you of the thing that holds to be so true

Here they come, Here they come
better fight them back
Here they come, Here they come
you can't even hold your act

Lips began to tremble
words began to slur
so many emotions
your sight is now a blur

Down, down they fall
the salty taste filling the inside of your mouth
that beautiful face, that stood so high
no turned down south

You hoping for a hug
somebody to come show you some love
don't give me no alcohol
it only makes me worsen up

Sometimes...Oh sometimes...
you just want to cry
but you can't let the tears, cause life to pass you by
got to keep it together
fight the storm...its only weather
soon to pass away
sun gone come out for sure one day

Sometimes...Sometimes...Sometimes
the world wants to let it flow
but they afraid to let their feelings show....


-Tanisha D. Davis
1/29/2014
8:33pm


 

"When I Fell in Love with You"- Poetry 4UrSOUL

When I fell in love with you
it felt like the soft drops of morning dew
gently fallen on my soft brown skin
allowing the love to sift right in,

When I fell in love with you
a smile came across my face
you looked me in my eyes
suddenly earth was no longer our dwelling place
we went dancing on the clouds in the skies

We soared among the open fields
nearly touched heavens gate
I prayed that you were the one and I was yours
knew this was that thing, they call fate

Honey dew kisses soft across your lips
hands so strong but face so timid
in my heart you felt security
you felt the need to be right here with me

You were not afraid and nor was I
to speak and express how we feel inside
to share our dreams, like rivers they flowed
and tossed up and down like the tide, we glowed

Oh how marvelous the sight of you
when I look in your eyes and see that glow
Love has come and taken me
placed me right at your front do'

When I fell in love with you
you were trapped but I prayed you be set free
Refused to let the birds come and peck away
what belonged to me

When I fell in love with you
that smile could light the sky at night
Lord knows you made me feel strong
You made me feel just right
You became my song, oh dark knight

When I fell in love
you smiled at me
only because you knew
I made your skies blue

Only because we could build a story together
page by page, age upon age
they would know of our love
The angels would rejoice up above

Before God we would make our vows known to the world
Singing and shouting from every roof top
and mountain high
that I was your gal, and you were my guy

Oh dear love
When I fell in love with you
my heart was content
because I knew
that you were heaven sent.

L....O.....V....E

-Tanisha D. Davis
1/24/2014

*Dedicated to my future husband*

Does Facebook Expose the True Person Behind the Screen?

It seems that this is the new way to meet & hook up or maybe simply connect with people all over the world. Maybe you accepted requests from friends that went to school with you or requests from those that others have suggested to you. The thing is, How many of us know who they really are behind the screen? You can chat back & forth in Messenger or you can comment on their stats and hopefully gain an idea of who the person is. The major problem is that half of the people you think you know that are posting stats daily are not really representing the image they are giving off to the public. Let's be straight up with this, because some of the single guy stats are actually married or engaged and they hide their relationship very well, because they can choose which photos to keep private for just themselves and no one else to see or they can custom make them so that only their girlfriend or wife sees the photos, so now to her it appears that everyone sees the same thing she is seeing!

The other issue on here is that people put to much of their personal life which includes their relationship out on social media. Every move they make, its posted to a large group of people who could care less about your relationship or are patiently waiting for that status to change back to "Single". I mean people post where they are eating at, where they are shopping at and honestly it can be a bit scary because the wrong person could see the information and know exactly where to come find you if they wanted to harm you. Let's get back to the subject because that could be another topic so stay tuned. So these men & women have their inbox full of messages that are misleading people to believe they are the man or woman of their dreams. Thanks to text messaging, many can communicate now more than ever without their partner ever knowing unless they had access to their cell phone statements.

The only problem which is so very dangerous about people getting on Face book and writing lies is that you risk someone's life. If another person is not aware that you are in a relationship and you are selling dreams to them, you risk their life because your spouse could be psycho! The last thing a married man or woman wants to hear is, "I did not know he/she was in a relationship or married".
Many people have lost their lives due to the unknown information. People get on these social sites and live out their fantasy lives, they can be whoever they desire to be on Face Book to please the world. They mislead the public and sell lies for likes!
The ones giving out relationship advice are usually reckless in relationships, the ones claiming to be 100% real are some of the fakest people you will ever meet, the ones claiming to be balling are broke, the ones claiming to be living in popular states are usually living around the corner from you, the ones who claim to be looking for someone to love them are unfaithful and have been through so many females or males that it is ridiculous! The ones who claim to be Christians are some of the biggest whores....you see my point.

 

 

 

How can you tell who is Real & who is Fake? Scary Right?!!!

 

People should just be honest and truthfully just be yourself. If you are in a relationship or marriage that you are not happy in, then by all means get out of it rather than drag someone else along into your messy life. Men lie to women all day and only give out the information that they want the women to know, and the women only give out what they want the men to know. Here is the thing I have found the most humorous. Face book allows you to go back down their news feed from years and you can gain some form of idea about the person chatting with you online. Yes, people do change but for some, you can see a pattern and you discover a little about the person. That guy pretending to be an angel fallen from the sky just for you, is simply that a fallen angel, a evil spirit looking to lure in his next target. He has no idea why he is single...He is such a good hard working man...the woman just don't know how to handle a good man he says...you believe him til you go through his timeline or start observing his posts on Face Book and you find out that he says that to all the ladies. This is the same but very rare with women. Don't get it twisted though because yes there are some women who come to deceive to and they hold their own secrets  to. They claim to be single but they live with men who they are in relationships with....they don't know why they are single but its because they just broke up that day with their man because you know they had a fight but he will be back that night! They even go as far to give you their number and the men are good for this to, but they find the best times to call you or they sneak and call you from closets, their car, or while they are at work or over a friends house.

 

Now don't get me wrong because you can actually meet some honest people on Face Book who represent exactly what they say. There are single men who love God on Face Book who are praying for the right woman to cross his computer screen or pop up in his friend request, and there are actually some God fearing women who are on Face Book who are single and in hope of meeting the right man. So how do you know? Truth is that you just have to leave the work up to God! If he or she is truly the one for you then God will bring both of you together and you will know that they are the one! You will feel it, because if it sounds to good to be true then nine out ten times, it is! Don't get fooled or dragged into someone else's mess! Pay attention to what they say, what they post, put it all together. Eventually you will be able to discover the truth or unscramble the letters to ILE...they may drop in different parts of the conversation and at different points but eventually they spell...LIE!

 

 

Stay Tuned because I'm writing more on this topic soon!

 

Women with Power but Still Single......Are You Wondering Why?...Then Check out This Topic!

 

 

So the question that Single Women are continuing to ask is, "Why am I Single, when I have so much to offer?"
Many women have been forced by society to get out and make some form of living for themselves until Mr. Right comes along to sweep her off of her hard working feet.  These women have been taught by mother, grandmother and father that a man wants a woman with something to offer him, in other words don't just come to the table with your looks. They have been taught that looks are not everything and that men want smart women rather than just a beautiful doll walking beside him.

However despite what they have been taught, this is not always the actuality of what they are seeing  take place around them in the communities where they dwell and neither in media which continues to showcase women getting married who have nothing special going on for themselves. These women have worked hard to live up to the stature that society has taught them that they should be from the time they were little girls, so what is wrong? Why are they having hard times with the men?

I took time to ask a few men for their thoughts as to why women with BA's, MD's & even PHD's are still unmarried? Here were their thoughts:

 

AD:  “Some men don't want a woman who is smarter and makes more money because those men  feel they can't love a woman and support her if she makes more than them.”

CA:  "Because most men don’t like women who are smarter than they are….they want a woman to bring something to the table….she can bring money to the table as long as she not smarter…its because of the male ego not wanting the woman to appear better than them…..a weak man is scared of competition, they weak minded in finances, mentally, and physically….they just weak minded….a strong minded man will try to show her that the money does not matter as long as I love you, what you make, we are one and we make it together….they show her how to build each other up and invest for their greatness because they are one & not separate".

 RH: "I feel that you have some guys who want to be the head... If their woman has all that going on, say for example…he is the underdog of the relationship…he is going to feel some type of way about that. Some guys could care less, but my bet is that most do care and would feel his woman wears the pants and is the head of the relationship and he feels like he is the tail".

RK:  "They are way to career oriented and the average female who goes through all of that, don’t have no time for no extra stuff, they are just focus on they careers and I feel that in order to gain, you have to lose some things….they trade their relationship life for their business life.  The average female making all that money feels like they don’t need a man".

still unmarried:

All men desire to feel needed in a relationship and these guys coming from diverse back grounds and all different ages were able to share thoughts that turned out to be similar....all saying one thing...men want to feel needed in your life. Its great to obtain all those things but you also have to remember that at some point in your life, the man you love wants to know that he means something to you, he wants to know that your career is not entirely more important than he is. Maybe it is just an ego thing, maybe this is just an issue among weak minded men, but I feel all men deserve to be the head in your life and he should not be put beneath you because he was built and crafted to lead.

I Corinthians 11:3..."But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man....

Never be so caught up in your career that you feel that you simply do not need a man, I think this has become a strong signal that women are tossing out to men. When songs promoting "Independence" for women started hitting the radios for women, a lot were pushed right into the motive of becoming exactly like what these singers such as Beyoncé, Neyo, Jamie Fox and even rappers like Webbie and Boosie had told them was the type of woman a man needed. They never told you that it could lead to relationship issues, because soon as the guy feels he is not needed because you can handle your own, now he feels there is no room for him in your life. Selfish it seems...but not entirely because we all want to feel needed.

 

Pay attention to the signals that you are giving off to men, be sure it is not the, "I don't need you & I can do it by myself signal". These bad signals can send a man in the opposite direction. No matter how beautiful or smart you are, he will only hang around for a season until he finds a woman he feels will consider him of more value to them.

 

We know women that you are toggling it all, work & family...but believe me there is someone specially designed for you who wants to be the head in your life and not only to act as a ruler over you but to walk beside you as your king and you as his queen. It's okay to let him be the man in your life. We all have been there, so use to doing everything for yourself that when he comes along, you are to busy showing him all that you have going rather than showing him that he has a place in your life and in your heart. Its okay to let your hair down and take off those heels...let him guide you and hold you up, and together you both can build a dynasty.

 

Many of you have been praying to God for that man to come along in your life who will love you & accept you for who you are. One who will appreciate what you have to offer him but ladies when he comes, you have to allow him the chance to show you what he has to offer you and why he is a great meaning to your life. Be open eyed to what God has been placing on your path. Many times he has sent guys our way but we have pushed or ran them off because of our pride. Humble yourself.  Its hard to see what is on your path when you are not focus.


Books like Act like a Lady but Think like a Man by the comedian Steve Harvey have possibly confused many women about how to pursue men.

Women have been told that this is

how a man thinks and you need to start thinking like a man to be able to get a man....but honestly God never designed you to think like a man, he designed you to be and think like a woman. When this book hit the shelves, single & even married women ran to the shelves to include myself in hope to find out the secret to getting a man. We were like kids on Christmas day ready to unwrap the secret to what we finally felt we needed to know. The catch was that the book only gives a brief insight as to how some men think and operate, not all men so women were still desperately lost & single. Then guys had purchased the book also to see what male secrets had been revealed to the women, probably only to laugh at those who attempted those endeavors.

One huge mess I tell you that led the way to more drama and games with women trying to live out the things mentioned in the book.

Somewhere ladies you have to find balance for the things you truly want in life. If your desire is to be married then make it top priority in your life and let everything else fall into place behind it. A man who truly loves you will value you for more than just how much money you make. You don't have to be the richest woman alive with multiple degrees just to catch the heart of a man. You don't have to drive the best luxury vehicle or live in the largest house to grasp his attention. Simply be you and he will adore you for that. You don't have to make those the first topics of the conversation with him either unless he asks for the information.
Love has possibly knocked at your door many times but you have put up the "I don't need a Man sign" so he went to the next door.

Do not blame the next female, simply ask what signs am I giving off to men when they see me?
Use this time to improve, allow 2014 to be the year that you find love. Many times God answers our prayers but we ignore the answers that he gives us & we pay no attention to that man who hangs ever so close to us but we keep him in the "friend" zone.

Love Awaits you, its not about lowering your standards to obtain a man....it's about not allowing your expectations to cause you to miss out on the man God designed for you. See we busy giving out orders to God about what we want in a man....but he already knows what you need and has already prepared a guy for you.

You are only as  Single as You allow Yourself to be.
Don't keep getting in your own way!

Letter from Dwayne Wade's Baby Mama...Shocking or Not?

So of course this letter has went viral...after Dwayne Wade & his fiancée Gabrielle Union took a break, he was back sleeping with his baby mama.

Every since Dwayne Wade admitted to having a child with a woman other than his fiancée, actress Gabrielle Union, he has faced lot's of controversy behind it. His baby’s mother, Aja Metoyer, has allegedly been publicly bashing Wade and his relationship with 41-year-old Union. Now I admit its bad when your fiancée decides to not only cheat on you but creates a baby! Now I mean that would definitely have me messed up & more than anything I would be looking at taking a break on the wedding engagement.

Here is the letter his baby mother Aja Metoyer wrote:

 

 "Seems like the Miami Heat has made its appearance on mediatakeout yesterday. So its only right i put Dwayne Wade on blast. First and foremost i'd like to thank ***** Wade, his cousin for booking my numerous of flights.

 Ohh yea, hi Ms. Union. Good too see you stuck around and have a few more pieces of clothing inside of his house. The kitchen looks great by the way. I love the new counter tops. I would also like to thank Rich, the chef for his amazing breakfast. His cookies are the best.

 And last but not least I'd like to thank Dwayne for always making me feel comfortable on your side of the bed. Hiding pictures in your drawer. You know the night stand next to your side of the bed, the one with the two drawers. Think the picture is the one with you and Sanaa Lathan in it.

 Also Gabrielle you are a little to old to be making Valentines day Photo albums. Leave that to the young girls your man cheats on you with. Dont believe me, i took a picture of the picture.

FYI your man likes fat a**es you might need to get you one. Last but not least. I will send you a picture of the bags your man left in the hotel room i f*cked him in. lol"

 

 

 

I would definitely have to hold my head up high behind something like that & honestly, I applaud Ms. Union for keeping her composure behind all of this because most women would be looking at ways to attack the female. Really what can you do when an extra life has been created who has nothing to do with it? I wonder just what this young lady, Aja's motives are for Dwayne Wade & Gabrielle Union? Is she trying to destroy their relationship so she can hopefully have him for herself? See females will go to any extent to destroy a relationship but in this case, you can't look entirely at her because it was his actions. She is simply a hurt young woman crying out for some much needed attention. We sit it everyday, women who can't have the man so they create ways to destroy things with the woman he already has which is just ignorant and desperate.

 

They say that true love conquers all things so let's see how these two lovers conquer this. They haven't even said I do yet...those vows are truly going to have to mean a lot when she admits that she will love him through the good and the bad, because this here is definitely the bad and if she can conquer this now, then maybe Gabrielle can conquer extra baggage that may occur every time they split up or fall on hard times.

 

 

                                     Is he worth the headache though?

 Let me hear your thoughts on this!

 

 

 

 

 

The Ever So Handsome: Lance Gross

Who doesn't know Lance Gross???  He is among one of the hottest young black celebrities in Hollywood doing his thing, from acting in television shows, movies, and music videos. Some of you know him from Tyler Perry's hit television series, House of Payne, upon which he plays Calvin. But who can't help but notice him for his charming smile, amazing looks & let us not forget his roles that reach us on that level where we can connect with his character.

You just can't dodge his smile & we know the ladies love a chocolate good looking man. He is ever so talented and has climbed the charts in the industry with his acting skills. Just a brief background on him,  Lance Gross born July 8, 1981 in Oakland, CA is doing very well at the age of only 32. Lance Gross attended Howard University where he obtained a Bachelor of Arts in theater and then trained at The Ivanna Chubbuck Studio as well as the Tasha Smith Acting Studio. He also gave up his track skills to pursue his dream of acting and we also have seen on Twitter where he likes to do a little photography on the side.

We have seen this handsome face in a few of Tyler Peryy's movies to include, Meet the Browns, the TV Series House of Payne and Temptation. He has also played in movies like The Last Fall where he plays a pro football player who returns home after his contract ends. He has played in Our Family Wedding along side another great actor Forrest Whitaker.

 

 

 

I must say though that my favorite movie this year was Temptation: Confessions of a Marriage Counselor by Tyler Perry featuring Lance Gross, who played the loving but yet easy going husband, Brice who is married to Jurnee Smollett-Bell (Judith)....the movie is about an ambitious married woman's temptation by a handsome billionaire which leads to betrayal, recklessness, and changes her entire life forever.

 

 

His role in this movie really helped society for the first time see things from the opposite side of the fence so to say. We always see men in the movies dogging the women out but finally we were able to hear the cries of the men. Finally we were able to see a guy who loves his wife, grew up in the church and was willing to go into the night club to save his wife because he loved her. Even after being rejected he still went into the guy's house to rescue her. I truly enjoyed this movie & it was inspirational to me because it taught me that you should always appreciate what you have even if its not major like you desire. Lance Gross played an awesome role & he really made you feel his character to the point that while he was crying; you shed tears to because of what was happening to him.
This guy is a magnificent young talented brother going places & I truly hope that he continues to impress us & leave us in awe with every movie scene.

 

If you haven't kept up with his movies then you definitely are missing out on talent at it's Best!

 

 

Keep your eyes open because I truly believe this young man is about to continue to heat up the movie screens...he can play the guitar for me any day! (Temptation)

Why Am I Still Single?...When I have so much to Offer

 

 

So the question that Single Women are continuing to ask is, "Why am I Single, when I have so much to offer?"
Many women have been forced by society to get out and make some form of living for themselves until Mr. Right comes along to sweep her off of her hard working feet.  These women have been taught by mother, grandmother and father that a man wants a woman with something to offer him, in other words don't just come to the table with your looks. They have been taught that looks are not everything and that men want smart women rather than just a beautiful doll walking beside him.

However despite what they have been taught, this is not always the actuality of what they are seeing  take place around them in the communities where they dwell and neither in media which continues to showcase women getting married who have nothing special going on for themselves. These women have worked hard to live up to the stature that society has taught them that they should be from the time they were little girls, so what is wrong? Why are they having hard times with the men?

I took time to ask a few men for their thoughts as to why women with BA's, MD's & even PHD's are still unmarried? Here were their thoughts:

 

AD:  “Some men don't want a woman who is smarter and makes more money because those men  feel they can't love a woman and support her if she makes more than them.”

CA:  "Because most men don’t like women who are smarter than they are….they want a woman to bring something to the table….she can bring money to the table as long as she not smarter…its because of the male ego not wanting the woman to appear better than them…..a weak man is scared of competition, they weak minded in finances, mentally, and physically….they just weak minded….a strong minded man will try to show her that the money does not matter as long as I love you, what you make, we are one and we make it together….they show her how to build each other up and invest for their greatness because they are one & not separate".

 RH: "I feel that you have some guys who want to be the head... If their woman has all that going on, say for example…he is the underdog of the relationship…he is going to feel some type of way about that. Some guys could care less, but my bet is that most do care and would feel his woman wears the pants and is the head of the relationship and he feels like he is the tail".

RK:  "They are way to career oriented and the average female who goes through all of that, don’t have no time for no extra stuff, they are just focus on they careers and I feel that in order to gain, you have to lose some things….they trade their relationship life for their business life.  The average female making all that money feels like they don’t need a man".

still unmarried:

All men desire to feel needed in a relationship and these guys coming from diverse back grounds and all different ages were able to share thoughts that turned out to be similar....all saying one thing...men want to feel needed in your life. Its great to obtain all those things but you also have to remember that at some point in your life, the man you love wants to know that he means something to you, he wants to know that your career is not entirely more important than he is. Maybe it is just an ego thing, maybe this is just an issue among weak minded men, but I feel all men deserve to be the head in your life and he should not be put beneath you because he was built and crafted to lead.

I Corinthians 11:3..."But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man....

Never be so caught up in your career that you feel that you simply do not need a man, I think this has become a strong signal that women are tossing out to men. When songs promoting "Independence" for women started hitting the radios for women, a lot were pushed right into the motive of becoming exactly like what these singers such as Beyoncé, Neyo, Jamie Fox and even rappers like Webbie and Boosie had told them was the type of woman a man needed. They never told you that it could lead to relationship issues, because soon as the guy feels he is not needed because you can handle your own, now he feels there is no room for him in your life. Selfish it seems...but not entirely because we all want to feel needed.

 

Pay attention to the signals that you are giving off to men, be sure it is not the, "I don't need you & I can do it by myself signal". These bad signals can send a man in the opposite direction. No matter how beautiful or smart you are, he will only hang around for a season until he finds a woman he feels will consider him of more value to them.

 

We know women that you are toggling it all, work & family...but believe me there is someone specially designed for you who wants to be the head in your life and not only to act as a ruler over you but to walk beside you as your king and you as his queen. It's okay to let him be the man in your life. We all have been there, so use to doing everything for yourself that when he comes along, you are to busy showing him all that you have going rather than showing him that he has a place in your life and in your heart. Its okay to let your hair down and take off those heels...let him guide you and hold you up, and together you both can build a dynasty.

 

Many of you have been praying to God for that man to come along in your life who will love you & accept you for who you are. One who will appreciate what you have to offer him but ladies when he comes, you have to allow him the chance to show you what he has to offer you and why he is a great meaning to your life. Be open eyed to what God has been placing on your path. Many times he has sent guys our way but we have pushed or ran them off because of our pride. Humble yourself.  Its hard to see what is on your path when you are not focus.


Books like Act like a Lady but Think like a Man by the comedian Steve Harvey have possibly confused many women about how to pursue men.

Women have been told that this is

how a man thinks and you need to start thinking like a man to be able to get a man....but honestly God never designed you to think like a man, he designed you to be and think like a woman. When this book hit the shelves, single & even married women ran to the shelves to include myself in hope to find out the secret to getting a man. We were like kids on Christmas day ready to unwrap the secret to what we finally felt we needed to know. The catch was that the book only gives a brief insight as to how some men think and operate, not all men so women were still desperately lost & single. Then guys had purchased the book also to see what male secrets had been revealed to the women, probably only to laugh at those who attempted those endeavors.

One huge mess I tell you that led the way to more drama and games with women trying to live out the things mentioned in the book.

Somewhere ladies you have to find balance for the things you truly want in life. If your desire is to be married then make it top priority in your life and let everything else fall into place behind it. A man who truly loves you will value you for more than just how much money you make. You don't have to be the richest woman alive with multiple degrees just to catch the heart of a man. You don't have to drive the best luxury vehicle or live in the largest house to grasp his attention. Simply be you and he will adore you for that. You don't have to make those the first topics of the conversation with him either unless he asks for the information.
Love has possibly knocked at your door many times but you have put up the "I don't need a Man sign" so he went to the next door.

Do not blame the next female, simply ask what signs am I giving off to men when they see me?
Use this time to improve, allow 2014 to be the year that you find love. Many times God answers our prayers but we ignore the answers that he gives us & we pay no attention to that man who hangs ever so close to us but we keep him in the "friend" zone.

Love Awaits you, its not about lowering your standards to obtain a man....it's about not allowing your expectations to cause you to miss out on the man God designed for you. See we busy giving out orders to God about what we want in a man....but he already knows what you need and has already prepared a guy for you.

You are only as  Single as You allow Yourself to be.
Don't keep getting in your own way!