Ever found yourself still experiencing pain from a past relationship or lover?
Does the very thought of that person still bring up bad images and thoughts in your head that make you feel as if you are reliving the hurt all over again?
This is only possible when you and the person are still tied to each other spiritually. We often think that when we break things off with a person and state that we are done with them that it is as we say. Yet there are some who have had such an impact on you spiritually that it still haunts your mind. Now when I say spiritually, I am speaking about your inner man, your soul.
Breaking free of someone who has deeply impacted you can take years if you do not rid yourself completely of them. This means not only ridding yourself of the pictures, clothing, or however else you try to forget a person. You must break all connections with that person off. There is no reason for you to still be out having lunch with them, holding conversations over the phone with them or even friends with them on any social sites. Many believe that remaining friends with a person who has hurt them will prove to the individual that you are over them and beyond the hurt. In actuality all it does is prove to the individual that you are still connected to them and that you sadly will never fully let them out of your life. It proves that they still have control over your mind and heart.
If you ever expect to have anything good enter your life, you must first let go of all the bad. If you do not break off all connections with that person then you could say the situation looks like spoiled milk being constantly filled back up with new milk. The situation will never improve but only contaminate the next good thing that comes your way.
We pray often for God to send us someone who loves us and will take care of our heart but yet we are refusing to break off all ties with those who have hurt us. You do not need to remain friends with people who have treated your love in vain and tossed you to the side as if you were crap!
I have yet to understand how people say they have forgave a person who have hurt them yet feel the need after forgiving to go and hang out with them. This is the most backwards thing you could do to yourself.
It looks just as wild as the female who constantly screams she is being physically abused by a man but every day she returns to him. Despite the bruises on her face.
Men and women you must break ties with those people if you expect any good to enter. Remember you cant keep pouring fresh milk into a spoiled milk jug. When you try to stay friends with people like that, you will inwardly began to smell bad and ward off anyone who attempts to be in your life.So today take the step to break free of them. Forgive but completely let them go. Open that door and allow them to exit your soul and life for good. Say to yourself today I am breaking myself free completely of any soul ties to whomever it is that you have discovered still has a connection in your life. By doing this you will experience an amazing feeling deep within and freely be able to receive the true love that awaits you. Remember that today we are dumping out that spoiled milk and starting fresh!
