5 Reasons He's Worth Marrying

 5 Reasons He’s Worth Marrying

So here you are wondering if the special man in your life is worth spending your entire life with.You may have told all your friends and family members that this guy is truly everything you have been waiting for and looking for in a man. Yet on the inside there is still that feeling that you need a bit more hope to accept that marriage idea he keeps bringing up to you. Here are some ways to help you identify if he is truly worth marrying.

Now notice it’s different for everyone because others may not need all these signs to tell them the guy is worth marrying because every woman has a different set of standards. However if you believe the mold fits you right then these great tips may be just what you needed to hear to give to go forward with the man of your dreams!

.    1.You share a mutual connection of thoughts and Ideas…Nothing is like being around a person that you can connect with on all levels. It is so very important to be able to communicate with the person you are planning to commit to for the rest of your life. Now I’m not saying you will not have days that you do not agree, but those disagreements will be minor compared to every day discussions. You want someone that you can discuss business with, someone who you can bring up ideas to and they understand and are willing to support those ideas as strongly as if they were their own ideas. Today many people marry for the wrong reasons and find themselves in long term relationships with people they have to debate with every time they mention how they feel. Be mindful that you also don’t want someone who agrees with everything you say because that can be signs they simply are not interested in what you are saying and just really want to make you happy regardless of how obscure the ideas you present sound. You will know that you both have a mutual connection because you may find yourselves laughing and saying, “Wow, we have so much in common”.

  2.    He is Truthful….Being around a man who tells you the truth regardless of how it may make you feel says a lot. Nobody wants to be around a lying man because when a man can’t be honest with you about small things then you know that when bigger issues arise, he will lie to you about those also. Honesty goes a long way and some women will claim they don’t want a man to tell them everything and that he should lie to them sometimes about small things like, (weight, fitting of clothing, hair, etc). I disagree with that because this only opens the door for him to feel it is okay to lie about other things because all he heard was you say, “It is okay to lie to me sometimes”. Honesty in a man is a plus, you may not like what he has to say but if he is keeping it real with you, take that into consideration because many men are out sweeping women off their feet with lies.

  3.   He Loves God… Allow me to break that down for you a bit more. He not only loves God but has a relationship with God. A man who prays and honors God’s words will honor you. Now some people will disagree and say that its some snakes in the church, and that may be true but remember I said he “honors” God’s words. A man who is just attending church and never communicates with God may be someone to watch out for. When considering marriage, a man in the bible is labeled the head and God is his head, so then you can follow your head as long as it is being lead by God. (I Cor. 11:3).  A man who seeks after the heart of God will do the things that are pleasing to God which includes loving you as he loves his own flesh. He will not seek to hurt you nor torment you, but find every way to love you as God loves us. He is that forgiving man who does not hold grudges when you make an error, he is that man that wants to pray about the things you both can’t come to an agreement on. He is that man that is okay waiting for you which includes holding off on sex until you say I do.

   4.    He makes you Laugh…Being in the presence of a man who knows how to put a smile on your face even when you are mad at him is truly a gift. Life is so much greater than the little things that we face each day so when you find a man who shows you the bright side of everything, then he is worth holding on to. No one likes a negative person who makes you feel miserable and drains you of your joy because they are always complaining about life. I believe we all began to laugh when we saw the actor; Lance Gross removes his shirt in Tyler Perry’s movie Temptation and began to play that guitar! Who could stay mad after seeing that? No one! So spend life with a man who is not just silly all the time, but he knows when to laugh and when to be serious. I’m not saying go marry Mr. Silly who never takes anything serious unless that’s your cup of tea.  Remember you are planning to spend the rest of your life with this guy, so you need some laughs along the way to get you through those rocky road days that do tend to come in marriage.

  5.    You are not a secret in his Life…. A man who loves you wants the world to know that he loves you and he will make your presence known to everyone that he encounters. He will take you home to meet his mother, his grandmother, his dad or whoever he feels is a key of importance in his life. Most females confuse meeting the guys friends as a sign that he is making your presence known, that is not always a sign. Meeting a guys friends means nothing because you may not be the only female he has brought to meet his friends that week. They will not be to quick to even tell you either, instead they will smile and greet you as they did the last female on yesterday. These days, most women seek to be made known on social media sites such as Facebook, Twitter, or even Instagram by the guy who claims to love them. This is a plus for today’s generation because he is showing he doesn't mind the world knowing you both are in love. However be careful with that also because some guys just do that for show every week they post a different girl. Stick to the old school way of going home and having dinner with his parents. A man who wants to spend his life with you, will bring you into his life which includes being around his family and at family events. If he never invites you to his home, to meet his parents, or to any family events then that may be a sign to watch out for.

Making sure he is the right one also means praying and asking God if this guy is the one to marry because often times, you may meet a guy with all these great qualities listed but he may not be for you, he could be for someone else. I hope that these great tips helped take care of that little doubt you had in your mind and eased your stomach a bit so you can relax. If he adds up to these tips then why are you making that man wait when he clearly wants to give you his last name!