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If Loving You is Wrong

There are so many women out there who are settling to love someone who is not loving them. These smart and intelligent women who are willing to sacrifice what they believe and know they deserve just so they do not feel left out when it comes to being the woman who does not have a man. These women are willing to lower all expectations at the risk of losing themselves. For what? So that you can have somebody. Somebody to them is better than having nobody. The fear of being alone makes them do whatever to keep a man. A man who could care less about them other than making sure she is avalaible to satisfy his needs when he wants them.
At some point you have to wake up ladies and see exactly what is healthy for you and what is not. At the same point you must understand that ita okay to be by yourself if he is not treating you right.
Its understood that many women have been broken by not having the male guidance they needed early in life. They grew up without their father so they missed seeing dad show love to them. Many have no clue of what it even feels like to be loved.

Here is the thing. Not knowing what love is has to do with the fact that many were never loved or felt isolated in life so they do not love themselves because no one showed them that they were important enough to be loved.

So here comes a slight bit of attention...the wrong attention and it seems to her that this is better than nothing.

Women you are prizes and you have to realize just how special you are even if it takes nobody but you telling yourself everyday that..."I Am Valuable", "I Love Me".  Say it and believe it.
When you believe it and know it then you will stop settling for men who treat you like crap.
Men who do not take the time in their day to call or check up on you but suddenly know your number when they need something or want sex.
Men who treat you second in their life and have not shown you any sign that they want more with you or that they want you to hold any title of importance in their life.

You have to let go of those type of men. There are some true gentlemen out there who are ready to sweep a woman like you off your feet if you will allow them and stop blocking the door with a guy who is playing around with your time.

You are no mans test object, do not let guys come in looking to test drive you and then leave you hanging when they are done using you up. Yea you have met them...they use you up then he leaves you to go get married.

I will say it again...it is nothing wrong with being alone until the right man comes your way and when he does, he will not make you feel as if you are in competition with any other female.
He will truly treat you as his queen...his prize possession. He will adore you for all that you are.

He will never be too busy to call or come see you or even just hold you when you need it.

Stop loving the wrong guy...its time to love that guy who loves you and thinks you are the best creation this world has ever seen.
He is simply waiting on you to let go and follow what your heart needs.

Gossipers: Guess What I Heard?!

So we all know someone who sits up and talks about others all the time. Its like their daily coffee. They have to know or dig for information on what is going on in another individuals life. The thing is that I find people like that to be miserable and to have no life of their own. To sit up and throw shade on the next person just means their life is more important than your own so you need to find a way to make yourself feel good by creating drama.  I have always been one to stay in my own lane. Kudos to anyone who is doing better than me because Im trying to get there so I have no reason to gossip about your productivity.

Life would be much easier if we spent more time congratulating rather than hating.

Dont be a trash can for anyone to come dump garbage off into your ear. You have to stand up and say, "If you have something negative to say then, keep it moving".

People who feel comfortable discussing others to you, are only comfortable because you allow them to be so therefore you are their destination too unload junk to.

Its never a good image to be the one known for exploiting someones personal life. Most of the time, the information spread may not even be entirely true. Yet people run off of half a story that has been twisted because clearly nobody wants the dry truth so they have to juice it up.

Lisa quit her job because she didnt have a baby sitter.

But by the time it gets around.

Did you hear Lisa got fired because she keeps missing work for her baby?

weeks later....

You know some guy at work gave Lisa a baby so now she dont work here no more.

Thats how gossip translates the facts.
I always say that if you truly want to know something, simply go to the source.

Dont assume anything, do not go off of hearsay. Just ask the person.

Gossip is usually some GAL..someone who needs to Get A Life (GAL).

See Your Way Out!

I have always been a believer in signs and wonders. I believe that God has ways of speaking to us to reveal the things that we need to know in life. He may not always speak in the form that we need him to, but, he is able to send messages to us in a numerous amount of ways. All of us wish to be at some stage in our life where we feel that we have accomplished our goals and achieved a higher ground. The thing is sometimes those roads that we choose to go down may often bring us difficult encounters simply because we choose to walk in our own way rather than seek God for the way to go. I feel like we must always put God first in all that we do because it is then that we find ourselves leading more happier and pleasant lives.

When we do things of our own mindset, we tend to often make mistakes. We tend to find ourselves wasting time and effort in places that God never meant for us to be. I look at relationships for a topic. We all have our mind set on who we want to spend our life with or rather say that we have some form of an idea of who we feel that we need. So we end up meeting that person and we spend year after year with that person but no progress is ever made in that relationship. Instead you find yourself up and down and running in circles. Now you began to question God to send you signs on whether this is where you need to be. So you and the person break up for odd reasons. You and this person keep going back and forth with disagreements and you keep asking God to send you another sign. So the relationship begins to worsen. Now lets stop there. When we are in love, we ignore all the warning signs that God sends us to let us know that this is not the relationship I want you in. We ignore all the constant fighting, yelling, and issues that arise as signs to show us that something is not right with this picture.

I believe that what ever God has for you, will come together without confusion and doubt. You will not have to wonder if it is love because you will know with all your heart that it is love. You have to pay attention to the signs and be willing to not be blind folded to what appears to be love. Being comfortable is not a sign of love, often that is a sign of settling because you are afraid of the possibilities that await you out there.

You have to be patient enough to wait on the things that God has in store for you, whether it is a relationship, new vehicle or even a new career path.  Never assume that because you are comfortable that you are where you need to be. You can be content in a bad relationship, you can be content on a bad job, you can be content when someone makes your food wrong but you eat it anyway. It doesn't mean that its the right way to feel.

Sometimes God paints the picture so clear for us and everyone around us sees what we should clearly be able to see, and they tell us, but we refuse to accept what is being told to us because it is not being told the way we want it to be told.

This is that place in your life where you need to say, God remove what ever is blinding me from seeing what you have prepared for me so that I may walk in the right way & be blessed. Today you need to make it up in your mind that you want what God has for you and that you are willing to walk the distance to obtain what he has in store for you. Do not fear being able to see...by seeing, I specifically mean seeing everything in your life for what it truly is. Accept it. Say thank you God for allowing me to see this and use this as a lesson to apply to your life so that you may become stronger.

Take a look at your job, your life, your relationships, your friendships, or what ever needs to be observed and say it's time for me to stop walking in darkness and walk in the light so that I can see.
It's time to remove the blind fold off of my mind and off of my heart so that I may reap the harvest while it is ready. This road called life is not always going to be an easy one. We are often faced with very difficult choices and made to let go of things we wish to hold on to no matter how bad they are for us.

Its like being sick and having to drink some nasty medication. You know the medicine will heal you but you still are hesitant about taking it and you prolong the healing process because you don't want the medicine because its not the kind of medicine you want. That's how life is, it may not give you what you want but it will always give you what you need. We battle against God for these very reasons. When we are not given that spouse, car, house, money, or job that we want....it becomes an issue for us and we fight against it rather than for it. It is not until later that we discover why God was keeping us from those things we thought we wanted.

Sadly many across the world tonight will lose the best thing ever because they are chasing after everything but what God has placed in front of them. Many will remain wearing their blind folds happily and never be able to see the great things that await them if they only believe.

Don't wait until its too late to realize that God was only trying to bless you. He has a way that is better than our way. You only have to trust him.